In dating, men usually undergo an enormous pressure in keeping the conversation going, thus resulting to two things--- getting speechless or talking too much without using his words wisely. If you are planning to date women from Medellin, these key points will be of great help in keeping the interaction over dinner in a light and more comfortable way. If you want to take your relationship to the next level, you must be careful with your words. Here are few things you SHOULDN’T do when you are dating a Latina:
Never call her mami during your first meeting. Being called mami is sweet for every Latina; it’s just like calling Asian women baby as an endearment. It can wake the butterflies in her stomach too. However, calling her with that endearment during your first meeting or first few dates may result to putting an end to your newly-started relationship.
Never decline the food she made for you. For Latin culture, turning down the food someone is trying to offer is more than spitting on their faces. Thus, learn the word ‘respect’ when it comes to whatever food she or her family offers even though you don’t feel like tasting it.
Never refuse to learn their language. Dating a Latina also means learning to speak their language even if she is not that fluent in the said language. She might not converse with you using their language that often, but some of her family might do. To impress her family, you might as well understand a few words of their language.
Never be a controlling madman. Though Latinas are known for being submissive and obedient toward their partners, most of them won’t put up with your harsh treatment if you seem to be a controlling douchebag. Don’t you dare abuse their goodness.
Never ask her to choose between you and her family. Never ever try to do this one because surely, you will lose the battle before it starts. If you have an issue about her clan, you can always talk to her about it and try to work it out together. Letting her choose is indeed a very bad idea.
If you want to keep your relationship with a Latina long, be aware of the things you must avoid from doing. Be mindful of the words you use especially if both of you just started up. In doing such, you will become one of the lucky men who enjoy life with Medellin women.